Do Not Stress Me Out !

Do Not Stress Me Out !

It's my Wedding Ceremony !

A transformation comes upon what once a very nice, sweet girl into a demanding, mean spirited spoiled little brat ! ! What's all that about ? It's called the approaching Wedding Day!

It doesn't matter much if the Ceremony Vows and all the Wedding Planning are in order. The Wedding Day brings a visitor called "Stress". Reverend Stephen Ongo founder of specialday speaks freely.

Their was a radio show that had a little bit entitled "The Call Of The Day ". What they would do is someone would call into the station with a real life scenario of say a good friend of theirs is getting married and they have booked their hall at such and such and they are very stressed that everything just goes right.

Now the D.J. would call up the bride to be and tell her that they are the management of the Hall they had just booked and unfortunately they have overbooked for your day and we are unable to honour your booking.

Now this whole telephone conversation is being aired on live radio and whoever is listening to that station is hearing a bride to be absolutely lose it. If it wasn't so tragic it would be funny.

She has sent out all the invitations by now, the call comes in maybe on a Tuesday or Wednesday and the Wedding is on Saturday.There is absolutely no time to find another place or even inform the 100 or more guests of the change.

This is Stress at it's MAX ! ! This changes nice girls into another kind of creature. One you do not want to be 100 yards from. Of course you can know some explicits are filling the airwaves, some tears, alot of anger, some tantrums and a whole gamutt of other emotions.

Do you think this would be a good time to tell her that this was only a joke played on you by your best friend. And that you are on the radio to boot so all your friends know what you are really like under the gun. Stress is not your enemy.

To all the Brides to be it can either make you or break you . You can come up like a shinning penny and actually be the best you have ever been or let it turn you into a tyrant nobody wants to be around.

Stress is natures way of putting the pressure on you to let you know what needs to be done and do it or get someone else to. Stress is not your enemy or an excuse to take some drugs.

Stress does not give you licence to be rude, mean spirited or hurt or offend the ones you love. It has a purpose and you should recognize that purpose and use it. Don't let it control your personality to the point people say she's a nice person but don't get her stressed.

My exhortation to the Brides to be;" Don't let Stress Change you because it's inevitable it will visit your Wedding. Use it work with it .

Stress can get alot of good and necessary things done for Your Special Day so don't treat it like an unwelcomed enemy.

by Reverend Stephen Ongo